Some individuals have a greater influence on us than anything on earth. They are the most unpredictable, mysterious and exciting - at least some of them. However, there are other types of people.
These are people whose harm greatly exceeds the benefit of communicating with them. Indeed, in order to live your life in the best way, you should surround yourself only with good people.
It’s even more important to be able to avoid those types of people who make your life worse. Strong-minded individuals are well aware of how much influence people exert on each other, so they carefully select those with whom they constantly communicate.
Strong-willed people are not completely invulnerable: they can also be injured and seriously hurt, if you know the weak points. The trick is that such individuals try to avoid in their circle of people a certain warehouse, the so-called "toxic people". Here are their types:
People who are constantly trying to look spectacular in order to compensate for something and prove to themselves their worth. Unfortunately for them, you know very well how much they really cost.
Demonstrating something and trying to make others envy is a waste of time when you try to feel better at the expense of others. People who behave this way should not be in your close circle.
I’m not talking about those cases when a person is so dumb that you can’t fix it. I mean such stupidity, which is the result of a bloated ego, voluntary ignorance and complacency.
Most of us know at least one or two people who behave unreasonably and constantly make the wrong decisions, absolutely not learning from our own mistakes. And it can last a lifetime.
As we grew older, each of us had one or more friends who were always completely opposed to accept the handout. When our friends begin a black streak in life, there is nothing wrong with offering them a drink a couple of times.
The problem arises when a person is completely satisfied with such conditions, and he makes no attempt to improve his financial situation.
Laziness is a disease, moreover, it is very contagious. Lazy people make others lazy. The more time you spend in their society, the less mobile you become.
Morally stable, strong-minded individuals cannot remain aloof from what is happening. Surround yourself with lazy people and soon you will notice how your productivity and ability to enjoy life decrease.
5. Those who live by saying, “You only live once”
Understanding that we only live once allows us to live a very eventful and interesting life. The main thing is to correctly interpret the appeal “You only live once”
Someone thinks that “You only live once” is “Let's waste time and do stupid funny things, so that maybe later we die in the process!” No, “You only live once” is “Let's do something meaningful, meaningful. You have only one chance. Don’t screw it up! ”
Those who spend most of their time working in the language rarely have time to seriously engage in something else. Mentally healthy people do not like to wag their tongues just like that, they rightly believe that their work speaks for itself. Chatterboxes have nothing but empty words.
7. Constantly depressing
This is not a chemical imbalance in the brain and depression as a diagnosis. We are talking about people who only behave as if they have a constant depression. They always feel bad, complain about how difficult it is for them to live and how unlucky they are.
But luck is not a lifelong circumstance. If your life sucks, it is most likely (if not completely) your fault. Do not surround yourself with such people - they can catch up with anyone!
8. Those who remain in their comfort zone
If we want to live an interesting and exciting life, we need to avoid those who do not want to leave their own comfort zone and do something. All you meet on your life path are your travel companions, albeit for a few seconds.
The people around us have a greater impact on us than we can imagine. Therefore, if you are planning to leave your own comfort zone regularly, do not waste time on those who are not going to follow your example. Just their chain is not long enough for some sorties.
9. Those who do not know how to dream
Those who do not know how to dream, really do not live. Life consists in believing that everything will be fine - not only with you, but with everyone. This makes people dream and hope that change is always for the better.
Those who are not able to dream will not allow you to dream. They will also try by all means to prove to you that your dreams will remain only dreams.
10. Those who do not believe
Worse than those who do not dream, there can only be those who dream, but do not believe that dreams will come true. Those who do not believe in themselves are not particularly valuable.
They are losers - they have no influence on the world and circumstances. They live in a very depressed world where nothing depends on them. They go with the flow and never even try to achieve success.
Do not think that you can rely on them in difficult times. If they don’t believe in themselves, then what the hell will they believe in you ?!
I had a lot of trouble in my life, most of which never happened.
Do not keep the keys to the mood of others. And then no one will steal moments of joy from you.
If you do not know how to laugh at yourself, you will never have the right to laugh at others.
Man most of all suffers not from troubles that happen, but from their experience.
Money is like manure: if it is not scattered, there will be no sense in it.
Even if it's hard - hold on! Others hold on to you!
Even if it's hard - hold on! Others hold on to you!
If you do not want to ruin your life - stay away from those who have already ruined theirs.
The more desires you have, the more they will come true. Probability theory. Wish the main thing!
Let none of us be hungry
And let no one be too full:
One from hunger is evil
The other does evil to us from satiety.
Where do the troubles come from?
Bioenergy experts say that misfortunes go to us at the genetic level. However, these are far from all the channels through which failures penetrate our lives. Human energy is a rather subtle substance. Yes, we can learn a lot from relatives - for example, lifestyle and manner of thinking, which is the cause of many troubles. But the Universe and Higher powers allow us to decide our own destiny on our own. A person’s life is in his full control, so everyone can change it in accordance with their desires.
Misfortunes originate at the energy level. Every situation that causes negative thoughts lays a destructive program. A person is emotionally involved in the flow of negative energy. In other words, we attract to ourselves what our thoughts are doing. Negative self-programming is the source of many troubles and failures.
Do not forget that all changes, even if at first glance they seem to be a difficult test, are, of course, always positive. But people who do not know how to think in a positive way pass this by themselves. You should not plunge into the abyss of despair and grumble at fate at every opportunity. Failures are the lessons of the Universe, and the main thing is to notice them correctly.
Learning to Avoid Troubles
Troubles come at our call. Positive changes are available to people who understand that any misfortune is a new start, a new opportunity, a new life. Most people think in a different direction, or rather, they think "like everyone else." And at the same time subconsciously program themselves into misfortunes.
An example is a woman who was raised by her mother, who has survived negative experiences and is confident that all men are cheaters. Being under the pressure of maternal experience, living with persistent subconscious fear, the girl thinks through situations that she never had and could not have been. She tries on herself the image of a wife whom they will change, and independently inspires herself with this attitude. And she will be cheated. One of the laws of the universe says: if you don’t want something to happen, don’t think about it.
To avoid trouble, you must abandon all misconceptions on your own and someone else's account. Perceive yourself as who you are. Get rid of the imposed opinion. Do not do as you need, but as you want.
Wealth is not a vice. The negative attitude, again imposed by society, is that money spoils people. People themselves spoil people, as well as self-interest and greed. Material wealth does not affect the spirituality and moral qualities of a person in any way. It is important to strive for what will make your life meaningful, open up a new world and bring satisfaction. You can choose for yourself any path of spiritual growth: hermitage or travel, wandering or comfort. No matter how you achieve unity with the Higher powers, the process itself is important.
Among the rich, there are many more people who have grown in soul than among the poor. The choice between material security and noble poverty, of course, always remains with the person, but remember that money and prosperity are not at all a vice.
Take responsibility for your own life. Living like everyone is undoubtedly easier than creating your own destiny and independently responsible for the consequences of decisions made. Much easier to blame all their defeats on others. Unhappy people like to grumble at fate, throwing responsibility for their failures to the bosses, life, evil rock, parents and so on, forgetting that the person himself is the culprit of all troubles and sins. No one but you will make your life happy, and no one can ruin it.
Do not teach other people how to live. It is necessary to get rid of the imposition on people of their point of view. Everyone on this earth has its own path. Advise only yourself and adhere to your own principles. You are not able to influence the outcome of life of even the closest and loved one. At first glance, to share personal experience and save a person from depressing consequences is a rather noble gesture. But everything is much deeper. A man’s serious mistake is his personal test, without which he cannot move on, develop and grow spiritually. You have learned the lesson of life - so let the other learn yours.
In the event that a person turned to you for help on his own, it is worth considering what you would do in such a case. If your friend doesn’t like your advice, don’t be imposed: this is his path and his fate. Perhaps this problem will still be encountered in your life, and thus you go through the stage of preparation for it.
Do not allow yourself to absorb other people's negative emotions. Remember that the often complaining person is none other than the energy vampire. Do not become his vest for tears. Upon contact with such people, the internal energy of a person responsible for luck and happiness is completely depleted. Stay away, otherwise similar troubles will pester you.
Share your happiness. Your social circle should reflect your inner world. You are not required to communicate with people who are overwhelmed with negative programs. It is important to share joy, happiness, success and get all these emotions back. Forget that opposites attract: this only happens if people complement each other. Lucky people are friends with the same, and relationships, one of the participants of which only complains and does not seek to change their lives for the better, will not last long.
Now you know that unhappiness is a consequence of a certain lifestyle. Only positive thoughts, belief in the best, communication with successful people will pull you out of this vicious circle. Attract good luck to yourself in all possible ways, live for yourself, and let your life bring only joy. be happy and don’t forget to press the buttons and